Day 113
Prompt: What freedom do you most appreciate
Hi Nigel
‘Hiya! I’m not sure it is a freedom or a basic human right’
The two can run very close in hand sometimes
‘Yes, I guessed you would understand that’
They tend to be the ones that remind us not to interfere with other people’s freedoms
‘Given it is the freedom to be myself, you might be right’
That is certainly one of those
‘Is it?’
If I want the freedom to be me then I have no right to stop you from being you
‘True enough. But… what if it Is something you fundamentally disagree with’
That’s when I would take a few steps back as in most cases it is not my circus
‘In most cases?’
Yes. If you are not harming anyone what business have I got interfering
‘Oh, I see. Yes, harming others isn’t acceptable’
However, it is not always completely avoidable
Some of our lifestyle choices, not that they really are choices, could and do upset those close to us
‘And to avoid that means denying our natural self’
Yes.
‘It’s complicated, isn’t it?’
It is when you are living in the pretense of who you are isn’t who you are’
‘Why do we do that?’
Fear of the unknown, fear of being rejected, and not wanting to hurt the ones we love the most
‘Don’t forget social and religious indoctrination’
I’m not as they feed the fear more than anything.
‘Yes, that’s true and it invites discrimination’
Of course, as humans, we are conditioned to fear and dislike what we don’t understand
‘So it is how we are raised’
Yes and no. Yes, we learn it from our parents, but they learned it from their parents who learned it from their parents and so it keeps going. In that sense it is conditioning.
‘So that is what we are up against to be ourselves’
Yes, the brick wall of human conditioning
‘Can that be changed or redirected?
Yes, but it takes some doing emotionally, physically, and mentally
‘Which is why we need those we love behind us’
Or to back off and let us get on with it. See you tomorrow, Nige
©JezzieG2024