
Inspired by and written for Simply 6 Minutes – thank you, Christine
One of the Boys
Form: Cornish Sonnet 1
I never was a girl for the Barbie pink
Just another thing that didn’t feel right
Back then the shades of pink made my heart sink
Without understanding the reasons why
A colour can bring the heart to such plight
With only confusion my tears to cry
All I ever wanted was shades of blue
To echo feelings that lived inside me
Even then it was something I just knew
I didn’t want dolls or the other girl toys
All of that just was not how it should be
When I should have been just one of the boys
I never was a girl for the Barbie pink
All I ever wanted was shades of blue
Time: 8 minutes, 20 seconds
Word count: 116
©JezzieG2023
Excellent 💜
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Thank you xx
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Wow, fantastic.
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Thank you x
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Reblogged this on Stine Writing and commented:
Jez writes words that so many would love to say
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I wouldn’t wish it on anyone
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I think back to how hard it must have been before there was even a bit of tolerance! Not to say it is much easier but perhaps for some.
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Back in the dark days of ignorance, we won’t go there. I use ignorance as little was understood about transgender, and what little was known related to trans women. The press may have been not so wonderful but it was there, Nothing was ever said about transgender men, and for me that meant people like me didn’t exist.. Having the awareness has made understanding of self easier – and that is an enormous step in the right direction. Even now though, the media stir it up against trans women and forget trans men exist.
There is another side to that coin which is during transition it is somewhat easier for trans men socially to simply just blend in without being noticed. I can honestly say I had no problems in the work place or going out etc. The payback is that gender reassignment for men takes a lot longer and involves more surgical intervention and, therefore, carries a greater demand on the body.
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So you actually know firsthand! Wow, I can’t even imagine how the confusion and fear impact just normal day to day life.
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I am a trans man, post-transition now, so yes being in my 50s, know how grim it could be back in the day. I am one of the lucky ones, my family stuck with me, the parents struggled with things, but they stuck with me. And my sons – I’m still the proudest mama on the planet, they are great lads.
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I don’t want to be inappropriate but you are the first person I have ever known to go through even the start of this life change. I give you a lot of credit. Thankfully your family is and was supportive. I’m sure that made it at least a tiny bit easier.
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Please don’t worry, I won’t be offended if the right thing comes out the wrong way. I’m an open book on this so happy to answer anything asked of me
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Well done! that was awesome! I am a new follower! I love your writing! ❤ ❤ my blog is here
http://therapybits.com/
xoxo
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Nice meet you, Carol Anne. Thank you for your comment
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